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Healing is Hard Work

We apologize for the length of time it has been since we have updated everyone, but healing really is hard work. Pastor has been home for two weeks now and he and Louise have developed quite a routine. Louise's little sister LaDora has been visiting and helping Louise get some much needed work done, as well as find some time to rest. It has been a very sweet visit and we will be sad to see her go.

With the comfort of home, Pastor has begun to regain his appetite and is eating better. Nevertheless, he has now lost 34 pounds. The therapists have refitted his body brace so it will fit and support him better. He says his bones feel like they are healing well, and he has now been four days without a pain pill. Praise the Lord for this! The battle to regulate his blood sugar is still waging, but the VA has referred him to an endocrinologist and they have coordinated better on changes in his medications. It will still take some time to get a better system of control figured out between his diet, medication, and exercise. Please pray that he will be responsive to these changes and that Louise will continue to have patience in helping him with this.

We are so thankful for the new walkway that has been built. At the church workday, the men prepared the site and some other men in the church laid the concrete this past week. The walkway extends from the steps of the parsonage, down in front of the garage, and then over to the new church building. It is much easier for Pastor to navigate his way with his walker now without having to go over the rocks. The therapists have him walking for 10 minutes at a time a few times a day. The best way for him to walk is to head out of the house, over to the new church building, and up and down the isles in the sanctuary. We are sure this has only hightened his desire to be preaching again, as he walks up and down imagining the faces of his church people in their regular spots.

For a pastor who truly LOVES the people the Lord has sent him, it has been so hard for him to accept this time away from preaching and teaching. He has been able to attend services...this photo here was taken at the start of his first Sunday back. The children gathered around him with hugs and kisses and well wishes. It is a huge honor to be the kid that gets to hold his hymnal. He was able to teach the Wednesday Night lesson this week. Tomorrow he plans to preach again for the first time since his accident! We love you all and thank you for your continued prayers for strength.

All Church Work Day

Make a Smilebox photobook We are still amazed at the amount of work that was accomplished today! Pastor and Louise are so grateful for everyone who took the time to come and work, and for all that was done. We began with a list of 27 items that needed to be taken care of. All but two of them were completed, but several new things were added along the way. The church and parsonage grounds definitely look like they have received a "facelift" and many of us will be sore tomorrow! All in all, it was a joyful time of working together. From the many bags of leaves that were bagged to the huge basket full of dirty rags that went in the washing machine at the end of the day, there was much evidence of all the work being done. The chili, baked potato and cornbread lunch was a time of sweet fellowship as we talked and laughed and re-fueled for one more round of labor. Pastor was so blessed to see so many faithful. He was able to come over to visit and talk for a bit . The walk over there tuckered him out and much of the pain increased afterwards, but it did his heart good to be a part of it for a while. His eyesight was pretty fuzzy today, so please keep that in your prayers. We have a guest preacher tomorrow! Pastor Shawn Scribner is here visiting from Arizona and it will be nice to have him fill the pulpit again for this Sunday. His visit will be brief, but much enjoyed.

Homecoming

Pastor is finally home! With a deep sigh of relief and a smile, he settled into his new room, only nineteen days from the last time he slept here and 23 pounds lighter. Hospital food and bad side effects from pain medication are not a preferred way of losing weight, but certainly effective. Louise is so glad to be cooking for him again and he is happy to eat whatever she gives him as best he can handle. It may take the rest of the winter and some exercise to gain back the bulk he lost, but by spring he should fit back into his old suits. He says he feels ten times better to be home.

The transition to home has been smooth, with a physical therapist coming to make sure all is going well. Louise is an excellent nurse. After being offered a job at the hospital several times, she (of course) declined in order to continue caring for him at home. Showering, dressing, and getting around in general take MUCH longer now. He is still feeling pain and discomfort, as is to be expected. All in all the progress is steady and the current medication mix seems to be just right. He can no longer feel or hear the "click-click-click" of his ribs each time he breathes deeply. This is thanks to the design of an almighty Creator, who designed a "natural glue" to begin to gel at the fracture site and hold the bones together.

The recently installed steel handrails are wonderful! They line the walkway up to their home, and with the icy weather already here, they will be used and appreciated many times over.

The T.V. room has been converted to a make shift bedroom that nicely accomodates his hospital bed and assorted accessories, as well as the couch for visitors. He loves being able to see out the front window and yesterday was blessed to have a view of Lanny and Sue raking up the front yard's pine needles and plums from his trees. We all know that he is nearly the hardest working man we know and would be doing all the fall jobs himself if he were able. But he knows that each person who takes one of these jobs is showing their love and care for him in a tangible way and he is ever grateful for the work done, as well as the hands that do them. To that end, we are all looking forward to an All-Church Work Day tomorrow, where hopefully we can complete the list of fall projects and take that load of care off of him and Louise.

As you can see above, he did not give in to popular opinion and keep his bushy white beard. We think he looks much healthier and several years younger without it anyway. He never was one to give in to peer pressure.

The abundance of blessings that we can see in every part of this experience, we fully credit to the hand of our great God and Saviour, who hears the prayers of the faithful. Your prayers are needed even more now, as the healing will be slow and difficult. We will continue to keep you updated and thank you so much for your love.

A Field Trip Home

With his permission slip signed by the doctors, Pastor came home to "visit" for the first time in 12 days. They wanted him to practice getting in and out of the truck, walking up the steps, and negotiating his way around with his walker...all while keeping in mind his physical precautions. He cannot turn his head to the left or right, bend down at the waist, cross his legs, or "walk and chew gum at the same time", as he puts it. They also wanted to see his home and office to help eliminate any safety risks and advise of items still needed in order for him to be comfortable. The therapist measured the height of each chair, making sure they were atleast 20" high. She also told us where to place shower bars and other aids. The doctors will order a hospital bed for him to use at home for a while and he will move to the T.V. room until things get easier. He ventured over to the church building , walking through his office to get to the sanctuary. He will need a new office chair that does not have wheels and does not swivel. Some men in the church are working on some new handrails for the steps up to his pulpit area, but he can use the podium when he is ready. As he stood behind it, even the therapist noted his posture staighten and his demeanor change. If y'all had been there, he would have started preaching right at you! He told her, "These are my people, the people I love. Life is about loving and having someone to love. And I love these people".

The hardest thing about the trip was leaving. In light of all these physical changes, it is difficult to see his state as a "light affliction". Yet, he is ever grateful for God's grace and mercy on his soul and his life, and anxious to serve Him all the more. Please pray that these afflictions will work in him a "far more exceeding and eternal weight of glory".
(II Corinthians 4:17) To God be the glory!

A Note From Louise

Dear Friends: The boys and I met with the therapists to discuss Nathan's progress; again, they are amazed at how much he does considering his injuries; Wedesday and today he's been very tired and experienced a lot of pain in his hip (first time). Tomorrow (Friday) they will bring him home for a visit to see how he can get around and to address any more changes we might need to make. Thanks for all who helped clear out a room for his hospital bed! Tuesday, they will meet again and decide if he can come home; so we know he'll be in rehab until at least Tuesday of next week. Shawn called last night and he is coming from Yuma to see Pastor next week; I'm sure he'll be here Sunday the 25th so you can all see him. My sister LaDora will come too, probably in about 10 days to help. I do know that the first week he is home he has to have someone with him 24/7-so I may need a few "Pastor setters"....or is it "sitters"- We continue to covet your prayers; and thank you for all the cards; he really does enjoy them! We can't begin to tell you how much we love and appreciate you all.

Thursday Update

A medical pow-wow was had this afternoon with Nathan, Louise, the boys, and the doctors. It looks like the earliest he would be released home is next Tuesday. At that time, they will all meet again and decide whether he is ready or needs more time. While the doctors agree he is ahead of schedule as far as the recovery process, he is still in a precarious spot and in no way are they willing to take any risks. For that matter, neither are we. We need to thank you all so much for your prayers as one thing they are amazed at is what little pain he seems to have at this point, and we know this is because of your prayers. His pain level has gone from nearly unbearable to uncomfortable, allowing him to participate more in his therapy.

The doctors are working to decrease his two main risks: a re-injury to his spine and poorly regulated blood sugar. Regarding his spine, the doctors say he is so lucky he is even alive, and that he is not paralyzed. To this he repied, "I am NOT lucky. I have the Lord Jesus Christ looking out for me. He gets all the credit for that." The doctors say many who present with the extent of his injuries at his age end up in a wheelchair for the rest of their lives, or they are just never able to recover at all. Due to the location of the vertebrae that were broken, a re-injury to his upper mid back especially (he broke T4) would be dangerous. Please pray the bones continue to heal well, that his body is able to rebuild the muscle support around them, and that he has no falls. With regard to his diabetes, well, most of you understand what a struggle that can be. They are working on medication adjustments to avoid the kind of thing that happened the morning of the accident. In addition, they are counseling him on diet changes. Just the mention of adding more vegetables to his diet makes him cringe, and we won't even mention the "donut" thing. The sweetest, prettiest nutrition counselor came in with some information, which he took without looking at and politely said"Ok, see you later". Please pray he makes the decision on his own to help monitor his diet better. We know Louise has been an excellent help in this area, but he has to be in cooperation.

That's all for now. More later. Thank you all for praying.